Before I start, let me say I have drafted this post many times but haven’t really been able to articulate what it is I want to say but, with the very first Fabulous Frost Fair only 2 days away, I guess it’s now or never.
CANCER.
IT’S TIME TO CALL IT A DAY.
Cancer. It is a word spoken so often that I sometimes wonder if it has lost some of its shock value; people don a pink wig, hold a coffee morning and everyone gives generously because we all know someone who has experience of the horrid, indiscriminate disease. But, until it is knocking on your door, until it is telling someone you really, really love that they might not be here next Christmas or birthday or any drizzly Tuesday which would be lightened by their presence, until you are picturing a world without that very special person it can all be a little detached from your world. It was for me.
I watched the 3 minute documentaries and tutted at how sad it was that a mother might never get to see her children graduate or get married or simply grow up, I saw the adverts asking for £3.00 a month but it didn’t really, truly register until it was in my house, my family, my world.
That might make me selfish but it is how it was. And then it was my world, and it was our mum and it did truly register and it felt pretty terrifying to say the least.
Thankfully, our gorgeous mum is now fit and well and has been hugely supportive of this event. That is thanks to the work of AMAZING doctors and charities and researchers that work tirelessly to find a cure and to support patients and their families every single day that they’re battling this disease.
That’s not to say that there is a cure for everyone at the moment; some are living with and fighting cancer every single day and sadly, some people will still lose that fight. But, more people than ever are beating the disease and, the more funds we can raise to support CCC, the research they do and the patients that use the centre everyday, the better.
We are so grateful that our mum will celebrate Christmas with her grandchildren and our beautiful cousin will be a bride next year and it is all down to charities such as our chosen Charity, The Clatterbridge Cancer Charity.
We want to help find a cure for all types of cancer and, whilst that won’t happen over night we want to help make the care and the facilities available in the region the best possible. Clatterbridge is renowned for its facilities and research, someone who has benefited from the centre this year, Chris Britton, who can’t speak highly enough of the support he received there:
During my Radiotherapy treatment it’s really brought home how amazing Clatterbridge is, even though us patients are going through the worst time imaginable, the place is filled with joking and laughter. Everyone is very supportive, like we’re all in this together. The staff really help too, they face each day with a smile on their face, providing the best care I could have hoped for.
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There is another, very important, part of the story though; what cancer and indeed any serious illness does teach us, is that every day is precious. There is no better time to tell your friends and family that you love them. There is no better time to pick up the phone, invite them out and spend time together.
The Fabulous Frost Fair is an opportunity for you to spend time with your friends and family;
Have a giggle, have a gossip and have a
GOOD TIME.
We desperately want all families to be able to enjoy the festive season together which is why we will also have a Wirral Food Bank Donation Station at Hillbark for the whole weekend, it would be the cherry on top of this particularly gorgeous cake if we could deliver some luxuries to those who might otherwise go without.
And, with that in mind we wanted to say a huge and heartfelt THANK YOU to all of our friends and family that have put up with us working all hours, cancelling nights out and, frankly being dreadful friends and partners. We are sorry, we do love you and it has all been for a very good reason.
Come along, It’s what memories are made of!
With all our Love,
The FFF Girls.
XxxX